About Me? About You?

Have you ever written about yourself, expressing the deep relational and sexual preferences you have, but... for everyone to see?

Well, that's what I'm doing with this page, with Mx Eve. And specifically with About Me section. It's been fascinating to see how I've changed it, amended, improved, questioned and experimented with it. How can I put what I am and what I want in succinct but eloquent paragraphs? And how do I express it in a way that speaks to those I want it to speak to?

So yes, this section is also about you.

As with every relation, it's not just about Me, it's also about you. It's Me putting a message that will make you recognise if you share the same values as Me, if you have similar needs, if you have a pull towards this even if you have no words to explain it - yet.

I've also made the below discoveries about Myself (and you):

1. My needs change. Currently I am mainly interested in power exchange, whereas before I had needs for different encounters, too. Which is why I was offering not just kinky dates (and still do, if your message catches my eye)

2. My pleasure perpetually grows and I am still learning how to dig into it. After a training session with another experienced Dominatrix, something shifted in permissioning Myself even more. There's a very real social stigma when it comes to sexual desires, especially the unconventional ones. Me included, I have significant traces of it which impacts Me when finding my full joy. I realize, I will always come against that, no matter how much learning and pleasure I get to have. But the difference is that I am aware of those conflicts within Me. Also, I'm very lucky that the journey of discovering My full pleasure potential has been rather fun.

3. Dates that spoil Me and behave their best to impress me not only create amazing memories for Me and themselves, but also increase My self worth, My standards and motivate Me to be even more generous, attentive and, ultimately, kind. I hope I do that for My dates, too.  

4. My best dates have been the kinky ones.

So, with the above in mind, I've updated my About Me section. I am becoming much more focused than before. Have a read and see if any of it clicks.

My wish is for all of us to find those that match our freaks. Trust Me, it's so worth it.